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The same boat | Day 98 of my 2023 Journal

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It is so easy to be annoyed with other people, and it is a common trap to believe your perspective is proper and that others got it wrong. I sometimes talk with other radical people, and even in these conversations, it is easy to condemn those inside the box. Feeling smarter and better. Let us not forget we all have a journey, and we are all worthy.

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Just hanging out | Day 97 of my 2023 Journal

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Just hanging out is a great luxury. In the morning, we all did our thing: The teenagers went for a walk and a croissant at the vegan, gluten-free bakery they had found, I did some morning shopping for the family, my husband did his yoga, and the youngest caught up with some sleep.

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The memories | Day 96 of my 2023 Journal

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Why do we travel to see churches we might forget? Why do we read books that might fade from our memory? Well. Because we are alive. Because the process of living, of leaning into the universe, touching the people we meet, absorbing from what is, adjusting to the immediate changes, or initiating them is what we do as humans.

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Slow down | Day 95 of my 2023 Journal

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Work is when we engage and take part. But the concept has become hollow, focused only on the monetary outcome. This is part of the suppression of women, of artists, and of freedom. When work became measurable by money and with the invention of the concept of BNP, the understanding of value changed, and we lost the awe of the very important work done by especially women.

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Steepest decent | Day 94 of my 2023 Journal

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Sometimes I feel like a sheep when in big crowds of tourists. Yet at the same time, I am happy for all the other people who get to visit epic places and enjoy the cultural history or the wonders of nature as long as I can find the steepest decent fast when I need it.

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Pisa and Lucca | Day 91 of my 2023 Journal

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The leaning tower of Pisa truly is a must. So we went. To take the pictures, all the stupid ones and some extra stupid ones. Like everyone else. The vibe of these places is quite enjoyable. Everyone is having fun.

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Florence | Day 89 of my 2023 Journal

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Visiting the David is garnished with masterpieces of Florentine art from the 15th and 16th centuries. We have seen a lot in this genre before, and it could have been a replay. It was not. This museum truly holds masterpiece after masterpiece. We moved slowly.

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Playing games | Day 87 of my 2023 Journal

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Playing games with each other creates a space for confirming our codependence, our ethical stand, and in the end, our love for each other. It also creates a space where we all agree on following the same rules for a while.

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Florence American Cemetery | Day 86 of my 2023 Journal

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Walking the graveyard and memorial yesterday with my husband and children and with my sister and her children sparked good conversations and deep thoughts. My oldest son just read a book where war is a deadly sin as it is an extreme waste of resources, the most valuable resources of all. I am reading Dante and on a similar thought pattern. So, we had an interesting conversation.

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Family | Day 85 of my 2023 Journal

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Our psyche evolves, stabilizes, and thrives with other people. We are supposed to be close to our parents, siblings, children, spouses, cousins, and friends. Family is important. We have to take it seriously.

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Cinque Terre | Day 84 of my 2023 Journal

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Ten years ago, we visited Italy in our first van conversion; we went for one day to Cinque Terre. This time we wanted to come back to walk the trails along the coast between the cities and enjoy the beauty. we were in for a surprise!

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From Verona to Cinque Terre | Day 83 of my 2023 Journal

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I believe teenage girls need their mothers much more than our society appreciates and that the way we raise children in institutions, pushing them to grow “resilient,” “mature,” and “independent,” is all just a huge hoax tearing families apart, numbing and dumbing down emotions that are pure, true and natural.

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Maintenance | Day 82 of my 2023 Journal

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One advantage of living in a van is the number of things that need fixing/maintenance is much smaller compared to living in a house. Another advantage is once you start, you just have to finish. Otherwise, there is nowhere to live.

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Pausing | Day 80 of my 2023 Journal

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It is sometimes emotionally complicated to stop. I remember someone said: “Vacation is doing something you are not usually doing.” Now we do not do vacations, but sometimes we do pause.

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